The language use in public speaking is different from ordinary conversation. In order words, we can not just say what we want to say without caring about some particular audience feelings in public speaking. As if we, sometimes, unintentionally use sexist language, “you guys” to greet our audiences. What’s wrong with the words of ”You guys?” When I came to the U. S., I have heard many people said, “You guys,” to address more than one person. Thus, I usually greeted my audiences, “Hi, how are you guys doing?” And I have never thought about the problem for using the words, until I read an article, “Why Sexist Language Matters,” by Sherry Kleinman, a sociological professor of the University of North Carolina that the word of “You guys, represents on e of the gender inequalities, equally to “freshman,” and “chairman.”
Occasionally, we do not intentionally emphasize one’s status, but we just speak out without thinking. Thus, although I don’t know much about sexist language words, I will just use gender-neutral pronouns to avoid using sexist language in my speech.
Finally, my opinion about the topic, I do agree with Rippie’s comment, “that’s not true. the problem exists…but it’s not a problem with Flickr” when he responded to Gimli_36, who said, “To my mind, the discussion can’t find any solution…because there are no problems:)”
I agree with you that it would be a good idea when speaking to a mixed group to avoid using gender specific language. However, in today's society we tend to be pretty laid back for the most part when it comes to terms such as "you guys" or "gals". I personally don't find the term girl or boy offensive. There are certain types of people that offend easily and groups that are very focused on political correctness. Bottom line when giving a speech is to get to know your audience first and adjust your language accordingly. If the audience is a group of feminists for example, then you might want to be extra cautious to not use phrases such as "you guys". One thing to consider is you can't always please everyone so it is a good idea to cater to the masses.
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